Psychologists say that a person’s capabilities are limited or realized depending on a given algorithm at the very beginning of the path to the goal. If you are determined to never experience material difficulties, we advise you once and for all to exclude the following formulations from your vocabulary.
10. I can’t do it
Saying this to yourself or someone else, you confess that your strength and capabilities are limited, and no matter how hard you try, nothing will come of it anyway. If you understand that some business at a given time is too much for you, you do not need to use this phrase. Say better: “I will not undertake this and I have reasons for it” or “until I have sufficient means to carry out this task”. Thus, you acknowledge that you are not going to take on something, but do not say that your personal inferiority is to blame.
9. Life is unfair to me
There is one catchphrase that should be remembered to anyone who likes to grumble for their lives: “Do not ask God for justice, because if he is truly fair, your affairs will be even worse.” The justice of this expression was able to experience in its own skin the hero of the famous film “Bruce Almighty” with Jim Carrey in the title role (revise at your leisure). Be grateful for everything that life gives you, because only in this case, you will be able to evaluate the opportunities given to you and successfully implement them.
8. I can’t get rich
First, do not formulate your ultimate goal with such an abstract definition of “rich”. What does it mean? Million, billion? Rich versus who? Set specific goals and objectives. Remember, the Universe recognizes only exact requests, otherwise it will “act” at its discretion, and this may not please you.
Secondly, this is a very convenient position - to write off all your misses to rock in advance is “just not fate”. Be sure that fate is a character, in turn, character is a habit, so the habit of saying this phrase to yourself will not affect your destiny in the best way.
7. That people were not ashamed
But did you know that people who have achieved success in their business have never looked back at the opinions of others? They were not afraid to challenge society and won. Therefore, you should not live with the eye on the fact that someone may not like it. In the end, “you won’t be sweet to everyone.” Do what you see fit and be honest with yourself. And let the opinion of gossipers or ill-wishers never become a guide for you.
6. Money is always very hard
No harder than climbing Mount Elbrus, flying to the moon or living without any part of the body. The world is so arranged that before you get something, you need to earn it (of course, we are talking about legal means of earning). Remember, the commandment “in the sweat of your face you will eat your bread” has not been canceled. However, the fear of possible difficulties is by no means a reason to backtrack from your dreams. The road will be overcome by a walker!
5. I do not have enough time for this
This phrase is true if it is said by a large mother of at least three weathers or by a person who has two days left to live. If you do not consider yourself in any of these categories, then you still have time, you just do not spend it on that. Try to organize your day rationally and you will see how much time you have left to work.
In addition, it should be noted that success is achieved not by the one who works a lot, the one who works efficiently. Therefore, try to squeeze the maximum benefit out of every minute spent, then you can compensate for the lack of time.
4. Happiness is not about money
It's hard to argue with that. However, if you pronounce this phrase, justifying your laziness and lack of initiative, then the philosophical dictum will acquire a negative connotation. Unfortunately, only those of us who have known true wisdom can become real ascetics and renounce most material wealth. Most people walk on the earth and do not find the strength to abandon "daily bread." Therefore, with these pathos phrases you will not convince yourself or others that counting every penny is your conscious choice.
3. A small salary, but calm
Calm ... like in a coffin. Probably the famous Akaki Akakievich from Gogol’s “Overcoat” had a similar view of life. Remember how he finished? Do you want also? If not, then you don’t need to cut off your wings (provided that you have them) and choose a stable small salary instead of the opportunity to achieve heights in your business.
2. Give it back as you can
If you are so rich that you will still be given a debt or not, then you can lend using this wording. However, if you said it out of delicacy, then you can put yourself in an awkward situation. There is a possibility that the person to whom you lent a certain amount will use your nobility and will pull until you wave your hand or make a scandal. Therefore, so that the debt does not become the cause of your quarrel with a friend or acquaintance, then honestly check all the deadlines. If you feel embarrassed, then you can explain that you yourself are in a difficult situation, therefore you are forced to put such conditions.
1. I have no money
This phrase is capable of making a person a zombie. If you regularly use these words in thoughts or in conversation, then you will not have the slightest opportunity to improve your financial situation, because in the end, you will put up with this situation and stop looking for possible solutions to the problem.